Note: The AMI QT Devotionals from December 5-11 are provided by Pastor Shan Gian, who serves as the Fenway site pastor of Symphony Church in Boston. Shan, a graduate of University of Pennsylvania and Gordon Conwell Seminary (M.Div.), is married to Jenny, who recently gave birth to their first baby Tyler.
Devotional Thought for Today
Philippians 1:3-6
I thank my God in all my remembrance of you, 4 always in every prayer of mine for you all making my prayer with joy, 5 because of your partnership in the gospel from the first day until now. 6 And I am sure of this, that he who began a good work in you will bring it to completion at the day of Jesus Christ.
Some of you may recall a wonderfully cheesy Christian song from the 1980s from Michael W. Smith called “Friends.” The first lines of the chorus are, “And friends are friends forever if the Lord’s the Lord of them.” While this song is cheesy, Smith, at least, hints at something that’s incredibly important for us to remember with regards to our spiritual friendships: For our friendships or partnerships in the gospel to last, the Lord must be the Lord of them.
The book of Philippians is oozing with joy and affection from Paul towards the church in Philippi. His heart of love towards these friends of his is undeniable when we read his letter, especially in these verses as he is so thankful for them when he remembers and prays for them with joy. Paul has such affection for them because of their friendship, but it’s so much more than a relationship based on similar backgrounds or interests. There was a strong friendship between them because the Lord was the Lord of them. Paul’s love for them was grounded in the fact that God was working in them.
It is crucial for us in the body of Christ to seek out and maintain spiritual friendships that will last for an eternity. Especially as we live in in a culture where the idea of friendship has been cheapened by the social media, it’s easy for us to settle for relationships based on similar age, interests, or opinions. Too often we’re missing out on the richness of joy that God has for us in true spiritual and eternal partnerships that are established and rooted in the work of God in our lives. As we are all a part of the body of Christ, let us seek to grow or maintain friendships where we can rejoice, as we see God at work in one another.
Prayer: Jesus, I thank You for all of the ways You’ve blessed me through the spiritual friendships in my life. I pray against shallowness and superficiality in my relationships, but that in all of them I will see Your faithful hand at work. Amen.
Bible Reading for Today: Proverbs 26
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Lunch Break Study
Read Mark 2:1-12: And when he returned to Capernaum after some days, it was reported that he was at home. 2 And many were gathered together, so that there was no more room, not even at the door. And he was preaching the word to them. 3 And they came, bringing to him a paralytic carried by four men. 4 And when they could not get near him because of the crowd, they removed the roof above him, and when they had made an opening, they let down the bed on which the paralytic lay. 5 And when Jesus saw their faith, he said to the paralytic, “Son, your sins are forgiven.” 6 Now some of the scribes were sitting there, questioning in their hearts,7 “Why does this man speak like that? He is blaspheming! Who can forgive sins but God alone?” 8 And immediately Jesus, perceiving in his spirit that they thus questioned within themselves, said to them, “Why do you question these things in your hearts? 9 Which is easier, to say to the paralytic, ‘Your sins are forgiven,’ or to say, ‘Rise, take up your bed and walk’? 10 But that you may know that the Son of Man has authority on earth to forgive sins”—he said to the paralytic— 11 “I say to you, rise, pick up your bed, and go home.” 12 And he rose and immediately picked up his bed and went out before them all, so that they were all amazed and glorified God, saying, “We never saw anything like this!”
Questions to Consider
- What were the obstacles to this paralytic man being healed?
- According to Mark, why does Jesus heal this man?
- How would you describe the friends of this paralytic man?
Notes
- There was such a large crowd in this house that people could not get through the door. There were also the scribes who did not approve of Jesus saying that this man’s sins were forgiven.
- Mark tells us in verse 5 that Jesus forgives this man’s sins and heals him “when Jesus saw their” It’s important to note that Mark says “their” faith, not “his faith.” It was on the basis of the collective faith of the paralytic man’s four friends that Jesus heals and forgives.
- Among a number of good words to describe them, I would choose loving, persistent and faithful. You have to assume that these four friends really cared for their paralytic friend. They wouldn’t have gone through the embarrassment of damaging the roof of another man’s house for the sake of a stranger, but they persisted through the obstacles with great faith to bring their friend to Jesus. What amazing friends!
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Evening Reflection
Think about the relationships and friendships you have now. Take some time to thank and praise God for the friendships that have pointed or been pointing you towards Jesus. Also, think about some of these relationships that could go deeper. Pray that those relationships in particular can go deeper and that God will continue to bless you through the body of Christ.
Note: The AMI QT Devotionals for December 3-4 are provided by Joanna Tzen. Joanna graduated from U. Penn and currently works in Philadelphia. She married Paul in 2014 and they attend Grace Covenant Church.
Something else that has been making me long for my heavenly home is all of the recent election rhetoric. Political and government news is somewhat interesting for me, but I usually keep my opinions to myself. This is probably due to my confrontational-avoidant nature, but that’s for another day’s devotional.
Earlier this fall, my husband and I purchased our first house. People always ask how we feel about this, expecting joy and excitement, but I think our response leaves something to be desired. As thankful as we are for this gift and experience to be good stewards, maintaining a 100-year-old house is a lot of work! It’s not just keeping up with mortgage payments, but learning how old door knobs and locks work, along with a heating system, not to mention old windows and electrical systems. All that is to say, oddly enough, the experience makes me long for my heavenly home.
Note: Today’s AMI Devotional is provided by Emerson Lin. Emerson, a graduate of University of California, San Diego, serves as a staff at Kairos Christian Church, while studying at Talbot School of Theology. He and Annie got married earlier this year.
Growing up, I was a typical rebellious teenager in high school and would often fight with my parents. Thinking they were being too hard on me, I decided that I had enough of their “parenting.” One day, I told my parents I could not live with them anymore and made a decision to leave the house. I packed my bags and walked out the door and disappeared for a whole week, without any contact. After a week, my friend’s mom drove me home. Looking back, the whole ordeal was quite comical.
Note: Today’s AMI Devotional is written by David Son, who serves as the college pastor at Symphony Church in Boston. David, a graduate of UC Berkeley (B.S.) and Gordon-Conwell Seminary (M.Div.), is married to Grace, who is a teacher.
Last month, I visited an Islamic Jummah prayer meeting in one of the college campuses near our church. Of course I told them that I was a Christian, and my purpose for attending was merely to learn. As I was sitting in the back of the room, observing the prayer time, the imam (spiritual leader) began his sermon with these words: “Life and death. Why did Allah create these things? – To test us. Everything in this life is a test, to see which one of you is the best, and to see if you will fall away or obey….”
As mentioned yesterday, Cyril, in spite of his character flaws, ably explained how Christ took on human nature while remaining fully divine; that, however, did not end the debate because of the monophysites, who argued that the divinity and humanity of Christ were so fused in him that it resulted in a third nature.
Note: The AMI QT Devotionals for November 29-30 are provided by Jabez Yeo. Jabez, a graduate of University of Pennsylvania, is currently working in NYC and serving at TRPC-E. He hopes to become a missionary.
There is nothing more taxing than having to make a choice between the “lesser of two evils”—this is as perplexing today as it was back in the days of the early church when the choice was between Nestorius and Cyril (italics—P. Ryun).
Note: Today’s AMI Devotional is written by Jane Oak who serves at Tapestry LA. Jane, an immigration lawyer, and her husband Harry were married last year.
One Sunday before worship service, I went to Starbucks with a few friends from Tapestry LA. While ordering my coffee, I saw the cashier wince and say quietly to himself “Oooh, my back hurts.” I paid him and then went over to the other counter to pick up my coffee. While waiting, I sensed the Spirit telling me, “Jane, you need to pray for his back to be healed.” I responded with, “I know you have healed my friends and cell group members, but this is a total stranger and he is busy working”; nevertheless, I felt that I had no choice but to obey.
If you are like most Americans, you probably watched your share of movies this holiday weekend. You younger and hipper folks out there probably went to the theaters; cheap and lame folk like myself just turned on the television and found a Star Wars marathon on TBS, a bunch of superhero movies on TNT, more action movies on FX, and of course rom-coms on Oxygen. Because I am male, I am slightly ashamed to admit that I’ve watched my share of rom-coms. One somewhat common theme we see in this genre is the bad guy turned good by the right girl. In theory, it’s a cute plot, but now that I have daughters, I hate it. I hate it because Hollywood is trying to sell us a love story that the guy in these movies has no business buying. Example, when Jack Nicholson tells Helen Hunt in the 1997 film As Good as It Gets that “She makes me want to be a better man,” the audience is touched and everyone hopes these two get together. We neglect the fact that Nicholson played an OCD, narcissistic, jerk who was not good enough for Hunt’s character. I would never want my daughter dating a guy like that! Don’t try to convince my daughters that this is a great love story! By the way, I’ve heard many a college student and young man use that cheesy line to make would-be girlfriends swoon. Ladies be warned—it comes from a movie!
On Thursday, I shared how we implemented chores and rewards for my seven-year-old, Simon. From that system, Saturday became his payday. In his first week of work, he made a whopping $3. Small oversight on my part, I only had $2 in my wallet. So, I gave my son the two bucks and told him that I’ll give him the rest later. I figured no big deal, right? Not so fast… for some reason, my son did not believe that I would’ve made good on my IOU. (I don’t know why Simon doesn’t trust me; perhaps it’s because whenever my family gives him money, Dad puts it away for “safekeeping”.) Anyway, the next day Simon asked me for his dollar, but of course I didn’t have it, because I wasn’t about to go to the bank for one dollar. This went on for a few days until I found a convenient time to come up with a buck—I think it was the following Wednesday.