Note: The AMI QT Devotionals from December 5-11 are provided by Pastor Shan Gian, who serves as the Fenway site pastor of Symphony Church in Boston. Shan, a graduate of University of Pennsylvania and Gordon Conwell Seminary (M.Div.), is married to Jenny, who recently gave birth to their first baby Tyler.
Devotional Thought for Today
Philippians 2:14-16
Do all things without grumbling or disputing, 15 that you may be blameless and innocent, children of God without blemish in the midst of a crooked and twisted generation, among whom you shine as lights in the world, 16 holding fast to the word of life, so that in the day of Christ I may be proud that I did not run in vain or labor in vain.
If you’re at a restaurant and your waiter is slow to fill up your glass of water, you can immediately pull out your phone and give that restaurant a bad review on Yelp. If you’re on vacation, staying at a hotel, and you’re not satisfied with the softness of your bed, you can just go on TripAdvisor and tell everyone in the world about your bad experience. And when you’re stuck in traffic on the highway, you can let everyone around you know about your frustrations—without even speaking a word—by just hitting that little spot in the middle of your steering wheel.
We live in a culture where the option to complain or grumble is seemingly built into every situation. Whether it’s small things, like bad service at a restaurant or hotel or heavy traffic on our way home, or big things, like feeling unhappy about our careers or the way a family member is inconsiderate, we are so prone to grumbling—because it’s just so easy to do.
At the root of all complaining is discontentment or dissatisfaction about our circumstances, because life isn’t going the way we want or think it should go. So when Paul tells us to do ALL things without grumbling, it’s a nearly impossible command, because it’s pretty rare for life to go exactly the way that we think it should go. In all things, there is always a reason for us to grumble.
To combat a grumbling heart, psychology tells us to be glass-half-full kind of people; that is, think positively, have an upbeat attitude about life, or focus on all of the good things that you are thankful for in life. But we all know that a positive mindset can only work for so long—sooner or later, even the good things of this world will disappoint us.
How do we follow this command then? The only way to save us from grumbling hearts is to focus our minds on something not of this world—by that, I mean God Himself. On this side of heaven, nothing in this world is exactly the way it should be—all good things of this world will fade. But when we turn the eyes of our hearts towards God in worship, we are focusing on the only “thing” that will never fade, the only one who will not disappoint, the source of true contentment.
On this Lord’s Day, let us focus our eyes on Jesus in worship. Let us leave behind the desires and expectations of our hearts about how everything should be, and seek to be with Him who will make all things new.
Prayer: Jesus, help me to focus on You this day. I pray that in all things, I will be satisfied by Your presence. Bless me as I worship You this day. Amen.
Bible Reading for Today: 1 Kings 1
Christmas is coming soon—and many of us are thinking about gifts. Let’s say, on Christmas Day, someone very close to you gives you a wonderful gift that he/she thinks you’ll love, with beautiful wrapping paper and a pretty bow on top. What would you do with it? You would, of course, either gently unwrap the gift, or, tear up the wrap like an animal, open the box, and enjoy the great gift. But now that you’ve done the work of unwrapping this gift, have you now “worked” for this gift? Of course not! The “work” that you’ve done has only led you to enjoy this gift.
Whenever two people live together, they unknowingly split into two roles: the one who doesn’t do the dishes and the one who does them but resents his/her roommate for not doing the dishes. In my very unscientific research, whenever two or more people live together, there is an 85% chance that there will be an argument or passive-aggressive bitterness with regards to the washing of dishes. In my life, I’ve taken on both roles: When I’m the one who doesn’t do the dishes, I am thinking, Of course, I’ll do the dishes… eventually, but then, my roommate would end up doing them; and I would be happy as a clam since I didn’t have to do them. When I’ve played the other role, though, every time I did the dishes—with righteous anger in my heart—I thought about ways that my roommate could pay for his “transgressions.”
In basketball, I, as much as anyone, enjoy seeing highlights of windmill dunks, off balance three point shots with the shot clock running down, and plays where the defender jumps in from out of nowhere to block the shot. It’s in plays like these that the talents and the athleticism of basketball players are highlighted. To me though, the beauty of basketball really shines in teamwork. There is something special about watching five guys on the basketball working in concert, seeing the ball being passed around, players working in unison, screening, cutting, passing; when a player has a good shot but instead passes the ball to his teammate for a great shot.
If someone came to you today and said, “You can have either a brand new BMW or a brand new Mercedes Benz for free, as my gift to you. You just have to pick one.” You, in theory, would have a dilemma on your hands, trying to decide between the two cars; but either way, it’s a win-win situation, right? No matter what you choose, you get a free luxury car. It’s not often that we encounter a win-win situation. Most of the time, life can feel more like an endless stream of lose-lose situations: If we choose this particular career path, we make less money, but if we choose this other career path, we have less time with others. If we live in this city, we’re too far from home, but if we live in this other city, we have fewer opportunities. It can sometimes feel like no matter what we choose in life, we’re missing out on something.
Note: The AMI QT Devotionals from December 5-11 are provided by Pastor Shan Gian, who serves as the Fenway site pastor of Symphony Church in Boston. Shan, a graduate of University of Pennsylvania and Gordon Conwell Seminary (M.Div.), is married to Jenny, who recently gave birth to their first baby Tyler.
In the movie Shawshank Redemption, the narrator describes the main character, Andy Dufresne, like this: “He strolled, like a man in a park without a care or a worry in the world, like he had on an invisible coat that would shield him from this place.” Andy was convicted of a crime that he did not commit and sentenced to life in prison. He was a victim of injustice, and yet, while stuck in prison, he walked around without a care or worry—it was as if he were a free man.
Some of you may recall a wonderfully cheesy Christian song from the 1980s from Michael W. Smith called “Friends.” The first lines of the chorus are, “And friends are friends forever if the Lord’s the Lord of them.” While this song is cheesy, Smith, at least, hints at something that’s incredibly important for us to remember with regards to our spiritual friendships: For our friendships or partnerships in the gospel to last, the Lord must be the Lord of them.
Note: The AMI QT Devotionals for December 3-4 are provided by Joanna Tzen. Joanna graduated from U. Penn and currently works in Philadelphia. She married Paul in 2014 and they attend Grace Covenant Church.
Something else that has been making me long for my heavenly home is all of the recent election rhetoric. Political and government news is somewhat interesting for me, but I usually keep my opinions to myself. This is probably due to my confrontational-avoidant nature, but that’s for another day’s devotional.
Earlier this fall, my husband and I purchased our first house. People always ask how we feel about this, expecting joy and excitement, but I think our response leaves something to be desired. As thankful as we are for this gift and experience to be good stewards, maintaining a 100-year-old house is a lot of work! It’s not just keeping up with mortgage payments, but learning how old door knobs and locks work, along with a heating system, not to mention old windows and electrical systems. All that is to say, oddly enough, the experience makes me long for my heavenly home.
Note: Today’s AMI Devotional is provided by Emerson Lin. Emerson, a graduate of University of California, San Diego, serves as a staff at Kairos Christian Church, while studying at Talbot School of Theology. He and Annie got married earlier this year.
Growing up, I was a typical rebellious teenager in high school and would often fight with my parents. Thinking they were being too hard on me, I decided that I had enough of their “parenting.” One day, I told my parents I could not live with them anymore and made a decision to leave the house. I packed my bags and walked out the door and disappeared for a whole week, without any contact. After a week, my friend’s mom drove me home. Looking back, the whole ordeal was quite comical.