UPDATED Today’s Spiritual Food for Thought, written by Pastor Young Kim of Grace Covenant Church in Philadelphia, was originally posted on June 23, 2013. Pastor Young is a graduate of University of Illinois (BS), Biblical Theological Seminary (M.Div.) and Westminster Theological Seminary (MA).
Spiritual Food for Thought for the Weekend
“The Art of Being a Parent”
Proverbs 23:13, 14
“Do not withhold discipline from a child; if you punish him with the rod, he will not die. Punish him with the rod and save his soul from death.”
I wonder what today’s counselors would say about this passage.
Like any parent, I love my kids. I laugh with them and I play with them, but I also discipline them. I try to be a happy and holy dad, trying to have as much fun with them as possible, but they know that if they misbehave, they will experience the “wrath” of dad. And that is the art of being a parent.
I pray that my kids will remember the laughter we have shared, but also, at the same time, they will have a healthy fear of dad when they are disobedient. I hope I do not sound scary. I don’t think my kids are scared of me, unless they do something wrong .
So then, let us spend some time praying for children. If you are a parent pray, for your kids. Write a letter to them; I do this from time to time. I spend time writing down how much I love them and what my prayers are for them. Sometimes I send it to them and other times I just keep it in my journal.
If you are single, pray for a niece or nephew. Maybe there are children at your church; pray for them as well for their parents, for they need great wisdom in raising their children.
If you don’t know any kids, go and get to know some of them; they will brighten your day and next time you will have someone to pray for.
Prayer: Jesus, give me wisdom to raise my children in the love and fear of God. Amen.
REPOST Today’s AMI QT Devotional, provided by Pastor David Kwon who heads Journey Community Church in Raleigh, North Carolina, was first posted on November 15, 2013. He is a graduate of Drexel University (BS) and Columbia International University (M.Div.).
Devotional Thought for This Morning
“Our Immense God”
Psalm 104:1-9 (NIV)
Praise the Lord, my soul. Lord my God, you are very great; you are clothed with splendor and majesty. 2 The Lord wraps himself in light as with a garment; he stretches out the heavens like a tent 3 and lays the beams of his upper chambers on their waters. He makes the clouds his chariot and rides on the wings of the wind. 4 He makes winds his messengers, flames of fire his servants. 5 He set the earth on its foundations; it can never be moved. 6 You covered it with the watery depths as with a garment; the waters stood above the mountains. 7 But at your rebuke the waters fled, at the sound of your thunder they took to flight; 8 they flowed over the mountains, they went down into the valleys, to the place you assigned for them. 9 You set a boundary they cannot cross; never again will they cover the earth.
One of the things I’ve learned about God over the years is that God is really BIG. And when I read through the Psalms, I see that many the psalmists have come to this realization as well. How can we describe our great God? What’s he like? Where does he live? They seem like silly questions, but for our finite little minds, tangible representations of our seemingly intangible God can be quite helpful.
In Psalm 104, the psalmist is essentially asking this same question: How can I describe our great God? As many of us do, he turns to nature for the answer. What is God like? Well if God had a robe it would be fashioned from light. And if God had a dwelling it would be the entire sky and the foundations would be the whole of the sea. What about His transportation? Well if God were to need to get from place to place, He’d ride the clouds and the wind. And what happens when God speaks? The foundations of the earth are set and the waters fall into place.
What a BIG God we serve! While no single metaphor or personification will ever do Him justice, we can turn to nature for dim pictures of his majesty and to one another for shadows of his image. And as we do, we get a fuller picture of our really big God.
Prayer: Heavenly Father, I cannot wrap my brain around the fact that You, being such an immense God, care about such an insignificant being like me. All I got left to say is to proclaim, “Thank You.” Amen.
Bible Reading for Today: Joshua 1
Lunch Break Study
Read Mark 4:35-41 (NIV):That day when evening came, he said to his disciples, “Let us go over to the other side.”36 Leaving the crowd behind, they took him along, just as he was, in the boat. There were also other boats with him. 37 A furious squall came up, and the waves broke over the boat, so that it was nearly swamped. 38 Jesus was in the stern, sleeping on a cushion. The disciples woke him and said to him, “Teacher, don’t you care if we drown?” 39 He got up, rebuked the wind and said to the waves, “Quiet! Be still!” Then the wind died down and it was completely calm. 40 He said to his disciples, “Why are you so afraid? Do you still have no faith?” 41 They were terrified and asked each other, “Who is this? Even the wind and the waves obey him!”
A few years ago, Rick Warren released a Bible study program called “40 Days in the Word” in which he outlines numerous methods to study and understand scripture. One of these methods is called “Picture It” and is intended to help readers get the most out of narrative texts (stories, like those found in the Gospels) like the one found in our passage for this afternoon. In a few steps, Warren encourages readers to picture the biblical scene in their mind (sights, smells, tastes, etc.) and engage their imagination asking questions like: What would I have been thinking at this point? How would I have felt? How would I have responded?
For the less imaginative among us, this method can be quite painful. But I think it’s helpful, especially as we look at the passage for today.
Questions to Consider
So, let’s try to picture it: you’re on the boat (and not a super advanced ship like we have today, but one according to the 2000-years-ago technology they had back then). You are in the middle of a really big lake and in the midst of a seriously fierce storm. You are wet with seawater and in serious need of some Dramamine (one of the disciples is hurling over the side of the boat… he’s not so used to being on the water… maybe that would be you). The former fishermen among you have tried everything they know to do but are now at their wits end and are convinced you’re all facing certain death. There is really noting to be done but to bear down and wait for impact. Someone goes to get Jesus; maybe he’ll know what to tell us to do. Jesus comes up, maybe a bit groggy, turns to the stormy waters and says, “Chill out! Right now.” (Or at least that’s how I imagine it…) And even more ridiculous than His solution to the problem, is that the waters actually respond, like a shamed child headed to time out.
1. What must they have been thinking?
2. What would you have thought?
3. Spend some time mediating on the greatness of God.
Notes
1. In various places in the Old Testament, particularly in the Psalms (like the one we read this morning), God is personified as one who rebukes tumultuous waters. He is just that big and His power is just that great that nature moves at His command. Yet our great, big God somehow (I get a bit of a headache trying to parse out exactly how it all went down) took upon Himself human flesh and became a man. Throughout this man’s life, a lot of people missed His “God-ness” because He seemed so small – a regular old Joe, with a common name, in a lowly town, with a motley crew – and everyone knows that God is really big. But even when our understanding of the greatness of God was baffled by His ability to be the Jesus walking on earth, the rest of nature did not seem to be confused and responded as they always had when He spoke – with obedience.
2. Our God is really Big – so big and great that nature obeys him. But he is also so small that He can walk with us everyday. Just like the old hymn says: And he walks with me, and He talks with me, and He tells me I am His own; and the joy we share as we tarry there, None other has ever known.” (In the Garden, C. Austin Miles)
3. Maybe you can picture the scene from the passage above or another passage that depicts His greatness. Then spend some time reminiscing with God – thinking about the times God has been personally present in your life, small enough to walk with you in seasons of plenty and want. Let those memories bring you joy and encouragement and lead you to adoration.
Evening Reflection
In our culture, we use the word “awesome” very freely – a song is awesome, a movie is awesome, extreme athletic ability is awesome, a great pair of shoes (and on sale) . . . awesome! Yet when God’s people talked about His “awesomeness” they pointed to his character and works that led them to stand in awe (jaws dropped, eyes wide, knees knocking, hands trembling). The greatness of God should blow our minds!
Spend sometime declaring the greatness of God in your own words. Ask the Holy Spirit to remind you of who God is and the things He’s done (in your life and throughout generations). Allow your heart to be moved to awe and adoration for God.
REPOST Today’s AMI QT Devotional, provided by Pastor Barry Kang who heads Symphony Church in Boston, was first posted on April 29, 2013. He is a graduate of Stanford University (BA), Fuller Theological Seminary (M.Div.) and Gordon-Conwell Theological Seminary (D.Min.).
Devotional Thought for This Morning
“Into the Presence of God”
Psalm 43:3-4 (NIV)
Send forth your light and your truth, let them guide me; let them bring me to your holy mountain, to the place where you dwell. 4 Then will I go to the altar of God, to God, my joy and my delight. I will praise you with the harp, O God, my God.
There is more to Psalms 42 and 43 than meets the eye. While the same question— “Why are you downcast oh my soul” (Psalm 42:5, 11, Psalm 43:5)—is repeated in both, the Psalmist laments in Psalm 42 but he is infused with hope in the following chapter. Whereas Psalm 42 records the writer’s dialogues with his own soul, the ensuing psalm shows him turning to God in a tone that is different from the previous chapter.
And yet, I am struck that the cry of the psalmist is not merely for deliverance out of his situation, but deliverance into the presence of God so that he can render worship unto Him. The psalmist’s desperation had more to do with his difficult circumstances keeping him from worshiping God (in the only way he knew how) than the circumstances themselves.
I believe the psalmist hits upon the greatest fundamental need of the human condition. We were made to give glory to God in his presence. This is the reason that scripture paints a picture of heaven, the ultimate depiction of being “with-God”, as a place where praising and giving glory to our King will never cease.
What kind of worship are you rendering unto God? Yesterday, our churches held worship services. Were you able to give worship as your heart desires? If not, cry out to God that he would lead you in his truth and light a fire in your heart so that you may worship Him passionately.
Prayer: Father, forgive me for I know that the worship I give to You is far less than You deserve. I thank You for Your demonstration of love on the cross. Because of the cross, I know that Your desire is to be with me. In the same way, help me to desire Your presence above everything else. Help me to be value giving You glory and worship above all things. In Jesus’s name, I pray. Amen.
Bible Reading for Today: Ezekiel 48
Lunch Break Study
Read John 4:21-26 (NIV): Jesus declared, “Believe me, woman, a time is coming when you will worship the Father neither on this mountain nor in Jerusalem. 22 You Samaritans worship what you do not know; we worship what we do know, for salvation is from the Jews. 23 Yet a time is coming and has now come when the true worshipers will worship the Father in spirit and truth, for they are the kind of worshipers the Father seeks. 24 God is spirit, and his worshipers must worship in spirit and in truth.” 25 The woman said, “I know that Messiah” (called Christ) “is coming. When he comes, he will explain everything to us.” 26 Then Jesus declared, “I who speak to you am he.”
Questions to Consider
Why does Jesus say that a time is coming when worship will be given “neither on this mountain nor in Jerusalem”?
What does Jesus mean by “salvation is from the Jews”?
What kind of worship does God desire of us?
Notes
In John’s gospel, a reference to the coming “time” consistently means the hour of Jesus’s exaltation through death and resurrection. This crisis will throw the whole course of human relationship with God into a new dimension, thereby rendering physical location, whether Jerusalem or Mount Gerizim, an obsolete issue. Now, because of Jesus, we are able to worship God anywhere.
Jesus did not come to abolish the Law or the Prophets but to fulfill them. As such, even though the Jewish people had periodically turned apostate, God, nonetheless, kept his covenant with them by allowing Jesus, God’s salvation to the world, to proceed from Israel. Moreover, Jesus’s messianic renewal of worship was based on Old Testament revelation, affirming it even as he transformed it.
With the coming of Jesus, a time of true worship is at hand because Jesus is now at hand. There is to be worship in spirit and truth because Jesus is the truth who dispenses the Spirit to all who believe in him. True worship, accordingly, is offered through the Son, based not on our sacrifices but upon his. In addition, true worship is only possible through our union with Jesus by means of the Holy Spirit.
Evening Reflection
The good news of Jesus is also that every moment is an opportunity to give God worship, as any moment is a moment where we can be in his presence. But what kind of worship will we give?
Even as we worship the Lord, its focus can easily be on us. How? We evaluate worship based on how much we liked the songs that we sang, or the message that we heard, or the “quality” of people whom we met in the church. We choose our churches based on how well their worship services meet our needs. The irony is that true worship will meet our deep-seated need to be in the presence of God, which starts and ends with Jesus. If our worship is not based upon the truth of Jesus, and led by the Spirit of God, then we are not offering true worship.
Are you living a life of worship? Does your life, words and actions, give glory to God? In our journals, let us confess the ways that our worship falls short, and then give God authentic praise based upon the work of Jesus Christ, which we see in scripture and in our lives.
REPOST Today’s AMI QT Devotional, first posted on March 30, 2015, is provided by Pastor Shan Gian who, in the coming month, is slated to lead Remnant Westside in Manhattan. Congratulations. Shan is a graduate of University of Pennsylvania (BA) and Gordon Conwell Seminary (M.Div.).
Devotional Thought for This Morning
“What God Sees in Us”
1 Samuel 16:6-12
When [the sons of Jesse] came, he looked on Eliab and thought, “Surely the Lord’s anointed is before him.” 7 But the Lord said to Samuel, “Do not look on his appearance or on the height of his stature, because I have rejected him. For the Lord sees not as man sees: man looks on the outward appearance, but the Lord looks on the heart.” 8 Then Jesse called Abinadab and made him pass before Samuel. And he said, “Neither has the Lord chosen this one.” 9 Then Jesse made Shammah pass by. And he said, “Neither has the Lord chosen this one.” 10 And Jesse made seven of his sons pass before Samuel. And Samuel said to Jesse, “The Lord has not chosen these.” 11 Then Samuel said to Jesse, “Are all your sons here?” And he said, “There remains yet the youngest, but behold, he is keeping the sheep.” And Samuel said to Jesse, “Send and get him, for we will not sit down till he comes here.” 12 And he sent and brought him in. Now he was ruddy and had beautiful eyes and was handsome. And the Lord said, “Arise, anoint him, for this is he.” 13 Then Samuel took the horn of oil and anointed him in the midst of his brothers. And the Spirit of the Lord rushed upon David from that day forward. And Samuel rose up and went to Ramah.
In Malcom Gladwell’s book Blink, he writes about a man named Bob Golomb who is an incredibly successful car salesman. The average car salesman sells ten cars per month, but for over a decade, Golomb has sold on average about twenty cars per month. What was his secret? Gladwell tells us that “He assumes that everyone who walks in the door has the exact same chance of buying a car.” Golomb himself said, “You cannot prejudge people in this business… You have to give everyone your best shot.”
Golomb has great success selling cars because whenever someone would walk into his dealership, he would not assume anything about them. A man could walk in wearing a hoodie and sweatpants, but Golomb would approach him the same way he would to a man wearing an expensive business suit. Golomb was able to sell so many more cars than his fellow car salesmen because no matter who came to him, he would strive to see beyond their appearance and assume their potential to buy a car and give them his best shot.
This sounds like a great philosophy, but how bad are we all at this? If we just look at Samuel in this passage, he is a prophet, a man who speaks with and for God, but even he struggles to do this! Looking only at his appearance, he sees Eliab and thinks, “Surely the Lord’s anointed is before him.” Samuel was looking at these sons of Jesse and only seeing the outer appearance. We all do this all the time. We meet someone, and we see how they look or how they act and we make judgments about them: “That girl could be an awesome leader” or “That guy he’s not smart enough to be useful here.”
But the Lord declared, “For the Lord sees not as man sees: man looks on the outward appearance, but the Lord looks on the heart.” Imagine if we would look at people and not see them with our human eyes, judging by their appearance or manner or dress, but instead see them with the eyes of the Lord with a desire to see their hearts. Maybe we could emulate Bob Golomb and strive to see the potential in every person and discover God’s love for them.
Prayer: Father, I pray that You will open my eyes to see Your love for every person. Help me to remember that every person I encounter is someone made in Your image. I pray for eyes to see each person and love them as You do. In Jesus’ name, amen.
Bible Reading for Today: Ezekiel 47
Lunch Bible Study
James 2:1-9: My brothers, show no partiality as you hold the faith in our Lord Jesus Christ, the Lord of glory. 2 For if a man wearing a gold ring and fine clothing comes into your assembly, and a poor man in shabby clothing also comes in,3 and if you pay attention to the one who wears the fine clothing and say, “You sit here in a good place,” while you say to the poor man, “You stand over there,” or, “Sit down at my feet,” 4 have you not then made distinctions among yourselves and become judges with evil thoughts? 5 Listen, my beloved brothers, has not God chosen those who are poor in the world to be rich in faith and heirs of the kingdom, which he has promised to those who love him? 6 But you have dishonored the poor man. Are not the rich the ones who oppress you, and the ones who drag you into court? 7 Are they not the ones who blaspheme the honorable name by which you were called?8 If you really fulfill the royal law according to the Scripture, “You shall love your neighbor as yourself,” you are doing well. 9 But if you show partiality, you are committing sin and are convicted by the law as transgressors.
Questions to Consider
What does James say is wrong with showing partiality?
Why is it difficult to fulfill the “royal law” and love our neighbors as ourselves?
How can you be “doing well” (v. 8) today and share the love of Jesus with your neighbor?
Notes
In the church that James was addressing, there was this issue of favoritism, causing divisions within the church. Some in the church seemed to be favoring the rich people in the congregation and giving them seats of honor, while those who were poor were relegated to lower positions. James tells us that showing partiality or favoritism puts up walls between people. When we do this, we create distinctions between people and we are judging others with evil thoughts. We are seeing our fellow brothers and sisters with human eyes.
It is difficult to love others as ourselves because we are so prone to looking at others by the outward appearance. Though we might not be making judgments of others just because of their looks, it could be about their wealth, status, or even how well we get along with them. Even as Christians, we find it hard to love our neighbors because we don’t always look at others as God does.
Personal application question
Evening Reflection
Did God open your eyes today to see people that He loves? Was there anyone with whom you found it difficult to see past their appearance? Reflect on God’s love for you and for your neighbor and pray for Him to keep opening your eyes to see others as people made in His image.
The AMI QT Devotional for today is provided by Pastor Yohan Lee, a friend of AMI, who has served as a staff at several AMI churches in the past. He and his wife Mandie have four adorable children: Simon, Maggie, Jonathan, and Abigail.
Devotional Thought for this Morning
“God or Anyone Else Not Named God?”
2 Sam. 18:32-33 (If you are unfamiliar with the story, it is helpful to read the entire chapter).
“The king asked the Cushite, “Is the young man Absalom safe?” The Cushite replied, “May the enemies of my lord the king and all who rise up to harm you be like that young man.” 33 The king was shaken. He went up to the room over the gateway and wept. As he went, he said: “O my son Absalom! My son, my son Absalom! If only I had died instead of you—O Absalom, my son, my son!”
In the 2008 cinematographic masterpiece, Kung Fu Panda, it is revealed to the audience that the antagonist—Tai Lung, the ferocious snow leopard—as actually trained by Master Shifu (the red panda) in the Jade Palace, the home of China’s greatest heroes! In fact, it was Shifu himself who raised Tai Lung from infancy and loved him like his very own son. And this love ultimately became his undoing, for Shifu was blind to the fact that Tai Lung’s heart was evil, and he was not worthy to open the dragon scroll.
Do you ever notice how often movies play off the theme of love blinding one party to the evils of the other? It’s a prevalent theme because it happens in real life all the time. How many of your friends have fallen for guys or girls that were clearly no good for them? In every group, there is that “jerk” whom everyone in the group must concede, “He may be a jerk, but he’s our jerk.” Similarly, parents are often the last ones to see just how misbehaved their children are.
David’s conflict over his son Absalom is very understandable. On one hand, Absalom was clearly evil, and it would have been an utter tragedy to allow Absalom to rule Israel (could you imagine the type of king he would have made?). But on the other hand, Absalom was still the king’s son, and was still loved by his father. Sometimes standing for the Lord will mean that you will have to stand against loved ones. This is why Christ says that the Gospel may bring a sword and pit a man against his father or a daughter against her mother (Matt. 10:32-37). We must not make the mistake of Eli, who honored his sons more than the Lord (1 Sam. 2:29). This day, ask yourself: What does it mean to love the Lord with all my heart, soul, mind, and strength? Can you put him above your most beloved people, and will you do what is right no matter the consequences?
Prayer: Lord, help me this day to set You apart in my heart as Lord and to love You more than all others. Give me the character to do what is right no matter the cost, whether in family, career, finances, etc. Amen.
Bible Reading for Today: Ezekiel 46
Lunch Break Study
Read Matthew 25:19-23: Now after a long time the master of those servants came and settled accounts with them. 20 And he who had received the five talents came forward, bringing five talents more, saying, “Master, you delivered to me five talents; here I have made five talents more.” 21 His master said to him, “Well done, good and faithful servant. You have been faithful over a little; I will set you over much. Enter into the joy of your master.” 22 And he also who had the two talents came forward, saying, “Master, you delivered to me two talents; here I have made two talents more.” 23 His master said to him, “Well done, good and faithful servant. You have been faithful over a little; I will set you over much. Enter into the joy of your master.”
Question to Consider
What happens to the two servants who multiplied their master’s talents?
Was the master’s reaction any different between the two servants? What does this imply?
What does good stewardship mean for you in your workplace? Your church? Your finances?
Notes
They were commended, given more as a result, and entered into the joy of their master
No. The master did not commend the servant with a return of five talents any more than the servant with a return of two talents. The absolute return is not as important to God as much as good stewardship with what was given.
Personal response
Evening Reflection
We began the day being reminded of putting God ahead of everything else, even our beloved family. In the afternoon, we were challenged to serve the Lord, yielding much fruits for the Lord. In light of that, review your day. Did you put God ahead of other important and perhaps urgent matters of your life? Did you bear any fruits for God today?
“You cover the Lord’s altar with tears, with weeping and groaning because he no longer regards the offering or accepts it with favor from your hand. 14 But you say, “Why does he not?” Because the Lord was witness between you and the wife of your youth, to whom you have been faithless, though she is your companion and your wife by covenant. 15 Did he not make them one, with a portion of the Spirit in their union? And what was the one God seeking? Godly offspring. So guard yourselves in your spirit, and let none of you be faithless to the wife of your youth. 16 “For the man who does not love his wife but divorces her, says the Lord, the God of Israel, covers his garment with violence, says the Lord of hosts. So guard yourselves in your spirit, and do not be faithless.”
Are you surprised to find God taking such offence at divorce? In addition to defectives animals offered for sacrifices, rampant divorce among the Israelites caused God to reject these offerings. Even so, I’m more surprised that divorce was an issue back in the 5th century B.C. Israel as it is today when hardly anyone, including some believers, would bat an eye over this. Since divorce among the believers is quite widespread, many churches have opted to remain silent, but instead speak against same sex marriage.
Back in Malachi’s day, God certainly cared about the betrayed wives and the forlorn children. That was on the prophet’s mind as he reminded the men to keep the covenant of marriage. But God was also concerned about another covenant, the bond between “Christ and the church” (Eph. 5:32). A “profound mystery” behind the institution of marriage between a man and a woman, established from the very beginning, is this: to foreshadow what God will do one day for humanity, who is separated from Him because of sins, and in time, to reconcile them “to himself in Christ, not counting men’s sins against them” (2 Cor. 5:19).
Divorce embodies the breaking of this covenant while same sex marriage distorts it because Christ’s love and sacrifice for the church is founded upon husbands loving their wives (Eph. 5:25). The first male and female whom God created (Gn. 1:27) were merely the first couple to have the opportunity to foreshadow the covenant between Christ and the church. And if you are married, or hope to one day, we need to live it out as an essential aspect of the message of reconciliation which we are to proclaim.
But, if you are having trouble with your spouse right now, not much of this may have helped you. My best move has always been this: Alone in a room, I say to God: “I’ve been telling my wife all her wrongs; tell me now my faults.” After being informed, I tell my wife, “I am sorry.” That’s how our marriage has survived. Try it. What is there to lose except a little pride, which we can do without just fine!
Prayer: Heavenly Father, I marvel at Your wonderful and intricate plan to reconcile us back to You. While I recognize that we may or may not have entered into this world through the institution of marriage, I thank You that every one of us has the opportunity to “wed” Christ through having faith in him and what was accomplished on the Cross. How thankful I am to You that Christ loves and cares for me. Amen
Bible Reading for Today: Ezekiel 45
Lunch Break Study
Read Eph. 5:21-33 (ESV): “Submitting to one another out of reverence for Christ. 22 Wives, submit to your own husbands, as to the Lord. 23 For the husband is the head of the wife even as Christ is the head of the church, his body, and is himself its Savior. 24 Now as the church submits to Christ, so also wives should submit in everything to their husbands. 25 Husbands, love your wives, as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her, 26 that he might sanctify her, having cleansed her by the washing of water with the word, 27 so that he might present the church to himself in splendor, without spot or wrinkle or any such thing, that she might be holy and without blemish. 28 In the same way husbands should love their wives as their own bodies. He who loves his wife loves himself. 29 For no one ever hated his own flesh, but nourishes and cherishes it, just as Christ does the church, 30 because we are members of his body. 31 ‘Therefore a man shall leave his father and mother and hold fast to his wife, and the two shall become one flesh.’ 32 This mystery is profound, and I am saying that it refers to Christ and the church. 33 However, let each one of you love his wife as himself, and let the wife see that she respects her husband.”
1 Peter 3:7 (ESV): “Likewise, husbands, live with your wives in an understanding way, showing honor to the woman as the weaker vessel, since they are heirs with you of the grace of life, so that your prayers may not be hindered.”
Questions to Consider
The submission issue always riles up some people. What is the overall tenor of this passage? Is it one of domination and submission as in enslavement?
How should husbands treat their wives? What should they do for them?
Ultimately, what is the main message of this passage?
Notes
First of all, before wives are told to submit to their husbands, everyone is told to submit to one another. The tenor of the passage calls for humility by all. Before men protest, remember that even Christ submitted to his father. The writer of the Hebrews says, “Jesus . . . offered up prayers . . . and tears to the one who could save him from death, and he was heard because of his reverent submission” (Heb. 5:7).
Husbands should treat their wives with respect, honor, care and self-sacrifice. They should also share God’s word with them so they may be sanctified (i.e., separated from the influence of the world). For instance, to a stay-home mom who is surrounded by career women, her husband needs to share God’s word that values bringing up children (1 Tim. 5:10) and also his appreciation of her.
God in Christ loves us beyond our imagination. This love is described by Paul like this: “I am convinced that neither death nor life, neither angels nor demons, neither the present nor the future, nor any powers, neither height nor depth, nor anything else in all creation, will be able to separate us from the love of God that is in Christ Jesus our Lord” (Rom. 8:38-9).
Evening Reflection
Spend a moment praying with your spouse. If you are single desiring to be married one day, pray for a godly mate. If you are neither, then pray for the marriage of your parents or friends.
REPOST Today’s AMI QT Devotional, provided by Pastor David Kwon who heads Journey Community Church in Raleigh, North Carolina, was first posted on June 8, 2014. He is a graduate of Drexel University (BS) and Columbia International University (M.Div.).
Spiritual Food for Thought for the Weekend
“What Kind of Heart Do You Have?”
Matthew 13:18-23
“Hear then the parable of the sower: [19] When anyone hears the word of the kingdom and does not understand it, the evil one comes and snatches away what has been sown in his heart. This is what was sown along the path. [20] As for what was sown on rocky ground, this is the one who hears the word and immediately receives it with joy, [21] yet he has no root in himself, but endures for a while, and when tribulation or persecution arises on account of the word, immediately he falls away. [22] As for what was sown among thorns, this is the one who hears the word, but the cares of the world and the deceitfulness of riches choke the word, and it proves unfruitful. [23] As for what was sown on good soil, this is the one who hears the word and understands it. He indeed bears fruit and yields, in one case a hundredfold, in another sixty, and in another thirty.”
“We must allow the Word of God to confront us, to disturb our security, to undermine our complacency and to overthrow our patterns of thought and behavior.” -John Stott
Maturing in Christ is actually not a complicated process. It does not require an extraordinary amount of skill nor knowledge. But by the regular use of the means of grace, such as prayer and the study of Scripture, it helps us become more like Jesus.
This parable is challenging because Jesus is describing how the Word is received in the hearts of people. He points out the various types of hearts: the hard heart (the Word never has a chance to grow); the shallow heart (this type of heart receives the Word with joy for awhile, but is choked out when trials come); and lastly, the divided heart (the Word grows for awhile, but then is choked out because of pleasure and riches). It is only the last type of heart – the good heart- that actually bears fruit and transforms our lives.
What kind of heart describes you? Have you seen the Word of God yield fruit (transformation) in your life these days? As we receive the Word in our own personal QT’s and from our respective churches, ask the Lord that all hindrances and distractions would be cast away and that the Word would yield a great crop in our daily lives. Amen.
Prayer: Dear God, help me to have a soft heart that readily receives your Word. Help me to reject a hard and divided heart so that the seed sown in my heart may produce abundant fruits. Amen.
REPOST Today’s Spiritual Food for Thought, written by Pastor Young Kim of Grace Covenant Church in Philadelphia, was originally posted on June 28, 2013. Pastor Young is a graduate of University of Illinois (BS), Biblical Theological Seminary (M.Div.) and Westminster Theological Seminary (MA).
Spiritual Food for Thought for the Weekend
“Be Diligent”
Proverb 22:13
The sluggard says, “There’s a lion outside! I’ll be killed in the public square!”
Is there something you need to be diligent about? Is there an unfinished task that you need to complete? Or are you being lazy with your spiritual life? I remember talking to an older pastor who reminded me that one of the killers for ministers is laziness. Laziness can make you spiritually unfruitful. Although we don’t live to perform for God, we don’t want to let laziness grow in our life for the enemy will use it destroy our relationship with God.
List three things you could be doing to spice up your relationship with God. Ask God for His grace to carry it out. Memorize 2 Timothy 1:7 tonight, and don’t be lazy in memorizing it: “For the Spirit God gave us does not make us timid, but gives us power, love and self-discipline.”
Prayer: Lord, help me to be diligent and not be given to laziness. Fill me with Your Spirit and Word so that I may lead a diligent and productive life that advances Your kingdom on earth. Amen.
REPOST Today’s AMI QT Devotional, provided by Pastor David Kwon who heads Journey Community Church in Raleigh, North Carolina, was first posted on November 23, 2013. He is a graduate of Drexel University (BS) and Columbia International University (M.Div.).
Devotional Thought for This Morning
“The Fear of God”
Psalm 112:1-19 (NIV)
Praise the Lord. Blessed are those who fear the Lord, who find great delight in his commands. 2 Their children will be mighty in the land; the generation of the upright will be blessed. 3 Wealth and riches are in their houses, and their righteousness endures forever. 4 Even in darkness light dawns for the upright, for those who are gracious and compassionate and righteous. 5 Good will come to those who are generous and lend freely, who conduct their affairs with justice. 6 Surely the righteous will never be shaken; they will be remembered forever. 7 They will have no fear of bad news; their hearts are steadfast, trusting in the Lord. 8 Their hearts are secure, they will have no fear; in the end they will look in triumph on their foes. 9 They have freely scattered their gifts to the poor, their righteousness endures forever; their horn will be lifted high in honor. 10 The wicked will see and be vexed, they will gnash their teeth and waste away; the longings of the wicked will come to nothing.
“When Hugh Latimer was preaching one day in the presence of King Henry VIII, he reports that he said to himself, ‘Latimer! Latimer! Remember that the king is here; be careful what you say.’ Then he said to himself, ‘Latimer! Latimer! Remember that the King of kings is here; be careful what you do not say.’ For such unflinching faithfulness Latimer was eventually burned at the stake. But he feared failing God more than he feared offending men.” (Matthew Kratz)
The most repeated command in Scripture is the command not to fear. And yet we are also frequently told in Scripture to fear the Lord. The harmony between the two and the wisdom of Scripture is this: When we learn to fear that which is most powerful, we finally find ourselves free from fear of less powerful things. Fear of man, fear of failure, fear of [you fill in the blank] come quickly to an end when we truly learn to fear God – acknowledging His power and sovereignty and submitting our lives to His rule.
Spend some time meditating on Psalm 112:1. Ask God to make this truth manifest in your life today.
Prayer: Dear God, may the truth of Psalm become the reality in my life. May I fear You above all else. May I love You above all else. May I worship You above all else. Amen.
Bible Reading for Today: Ezekiel 41
Lunch Break Study
Read Matthew 10:26-33: “So have no fear of them, for nothing is covered that will not be revealed, or hidden that will not be known. 27 What I tell you in the dark, say in the light, and what you hear whispered, proclaim on the housetops. 28 And do not fear those who kill the body but cannot kill the soul. Rather fear him who can destroy both soul and body in hell. 29 Are not two sparrows sold for a penny? And not one of them will fall to the ground apart from your Father. 30 But even the hairs of your head are all numbered. 31 Fear not, therefore; you are of more value than many sparrows. 32 So everyone who acknowledges me before men, I also will acknowledge before my Father who is in heaven, 33 but whoever denies me before men, I also will deny before my Father who is in heaven.”
Questions to Consider
What do we learn from verse 28 about what to fear and what not to fear? Are there areas in your life where you have misplaced fears?
In calling us to fear God alone, what comfort and encouragement does Jesus give us?
In verses 32-33, how are we called to fear God in our lives?
Are there practical ways you can acknowledge God in your life today? Spend some time declaring God’s power, majesty, and supremacy in your life and in the world. Ask God to show you ways He’s calling you to acknowledge Him.
NOTES
God is the most powerful – He is the only one who can destroy not only the body, but also the soul. No one else has that kind of power. Therefore, we are to fear God above any other person and any other thing in this world, because He is the most powerful being in all existence.
Not only is our God all-powerful, but also He is full of compassion for His children. He is mindful of us and cares for us so much so that He even knows the number of hairs on our head. The most powerful being in the world also wills good for each of us. Therefore, in submitting ourselves to God, we do so not in terror, but in a joyful reverence and awe.
Jesus calls us to acknowledge Him publically. This could be through our words, through our actions/choices, etc. Whatever the situation, we have to show that we submit first and foremost to God, even if the outcome will be persecution from man.
Evening Reflection
The 1905 hymn, “His Eye Is On the Sparrow” reads,
“I sing because I’m happy,
I sing because I’m free,
For His eye is on the sparrow,
And I know He watches me.
‘Let not your heart be troubled,’ His tender word I hear,
And resting on His goodness, I lose my doubts and fears.”
Is God the only one you fear? Or do you fear much less powerful things? Are you living in the comfort and peace of knowing that God has promised to care for you? Ask God to help you find rest in Him.
REPOST Today’s AMI Devotional, provided by Pastor Peter Yoon of Kairos Christian Church in San Diego, was first posted on April 7, 2015. Peter is a graduate of University of California, Riverside (BA) and Talbot School of Theology (M.Div.).
Devotional Thought for This Morning
“Playing the Victim Card”
1 Samuel 22:6-8
Now Saul heard that David and his men had been discovered. And Saul was seated, spear in hand, under the tamarisk tree on the hill at Gibeah, with all his officials standing at his side. 7 He said to them, “Listen, men of Benjamin! Will the son of Jesse give all of you fields and vineyards? Will he make all of you commanders of thousands and commanders of hundreds? 8 Is that why you have all conspired against me? No one tells me when my son makes a covenant with the son of Jesse. None of you is concerned about me or tells me that my son has incited my servant to lie in wait for me, as he does today.”
My two boys will get into a little tiff and eventually one of them (usually the younger) will come running to me making a case about how he had been victimized by his brother: “Dad, he took the controller away from me, and he’s not sharing!” Of course, then his older brother will have to plead his own case that he first had been wronged: “Dad, he’s been playing already for a long time, and I didn’t even get a turn.” Back and forth the arguments will be made, hoping that I would be persuaded to take the side of the ultimate victim.
I can probably make the case that being born as sinful creatures, we are all prone to playing the victim card; this is where we use attention seeking strategies to either cope, or even worse, manipulate others for our benefit. Both Adam and Eve tried to blame others rather than admit their disobedience, claiming that they had been victimized.
In this passage, King Saul concludes his tirade by playing the ultimate victim card. He makes accusations that “all have conspired against me,” and that “none of you is concerned about me.” Saul discloses that even his own son has taken the side of David—perhaps trying to manipulate his men to take his side. It would seem that while Saul still remained seated on the throne, his kingdom was slipping from his very own fingers. He needed to convince others that he was still a legitimate king and that the real perpetrator was David, while he was the victim.
Do you sometimes find yourself playing the victim card? Perhaps it’s about your spouse, your boss, your small group leader, or your pastor. (Of course, if a perpetrator has indeed hurt you by abusing one’s authority or power, then the Lord desires to heal you.) Do you sometimes react to situations and find yourself resorting to the same strategies employed here by Saul in the secret hopes of manipulation? If so, ask the Lord to reveal the truth of your circumstances. Ask the Lord to reveal what’s really going on in your heart.
Prayer: Dear Lord, it is easy to complain about others and claim that I have been wronged. I can try to make a case that I have been overlooked, abandoned, and unloved. But Lord, I know that you have not overlooked me. I know that you have not abandoned me and that nothing will separate me from Your love. In Jesus’ name, amen.
Bible Reading for Today: Ezekiel 40
Lunch Break Study
Read Romans 8:31-39 (NIV): What, then, shall we say in response to these things? If God is for us, who can be against us? 32 He who did not spare his own Son, but gave him up for us all—how will he not also, along with him, graciously give us all things? 33 Who will bring any charge against those whom God has chosen? It is God who justifies. 34 Who then is the one who condemns? No one. Christ Jesus who died—more than that, who was raised to life—is at the right hand of God and is also interceding for us. 35 Who shall separate us from the love of Christ? Shall trouble or hardship or persecution or famine or nakedness or danger or sword? 36 As it is written: “For your sake we face death all day long;we are considered as sheep to be slaughtered.” 37 No, in all these things we are more than conquerors through him who loved us. 38 For I am convinced that neither death nor life, neither angels nor demons, neither the present nor the future, nor any powers, 39 neither height nor depth, nor anything else in all creation, will be able to separate us from the love of God that is in Christ Jesus our Lord.
Questions to Consider
How does Paul convince the church in Rome that God loves them and is for them?
What is Paul referring to when he writes, “in all these things” in verse 37?
Rather than feeling victimized by trouble and hardship, how is Paul convinced that he is more than a conqueror?
Notes
Paul reminds them that God did not spare his own Son, but gave His very own Son for us all.
Paul is talking about all of the “trouble and hardship, persecution, famine, nakedness, danger and sword” mentioned in verse 35.
Though there’s persecution and murder of Christians, Paul says, “No, in all these things we are more than conquerors through him who loved us.” What I think this means is that a conqueror has his enemies lying, subdued at his feet—enemies such as distress, famine, nakedness, peril, sword, and persecution. But if we are “more than conquerors,” it means that they’re not just at our feet, but they are serving us. They’re not just in chains in prison; rather, they are serving us. Our persecution, famine, nakedness, loss—as painful and as tearful as they are—are our servants, for God works them all together for our good (John Piper).
Evening Reflection
Have you been feeling victimized due to difficult circumstances? Have you found yourself complaining and feeling hopeless? Spend some time asking the Holy Spirit to readjust your perspective on those matters. Make plans to meet with a trusted person who can both listen to you but also provide you with a truthful perspective on these matters.
